HUMP DAY!!

It's HUMP DAY (Wednesday) and I just wanted to hope everyone has and will continue to have a great week ;-) *MUAH*

Why is it????

Why is it that so many people say they are "ballin" when in actuality their parents are the ones with the money?
Why is it that so many people can't take responsibility for their own actions?
Why is it that people can find the faults in others but never see their own downfalls?
Why is it that women will take a fast money making drug dealer over an honest hardworking man?
Why is it that so many people feel that they are entitle to something when they have done nothing to work for it?
Why is it that as soon as someone starts speaking any kind of truth people shut them out?
Why is it that so many people have to much pride that they rather lose a good person (whether it be friend, family, an intimate relationship) than simply apologize and admit they were wrong?
Why is that some of you reading this are feeling some kind of way because I just hit a nerve??

*the 1st edition of "WHY IS IT????"

Happy Holidays!!!

Whether you celebrate Christmas, Kwanzaa, or Hanukkah. I hoped that you all had a very blessed day and hope that you all bring in the new year safely!! Much love *MUAH*

Queen of Hip-hop Soul

She's back with her ninth studio album. Grammy award winning songstress Mary J Blige has really out done herself with this album with tracks like "In The Morning", "Kitchen" , "Each Tear", & "Stronger". Two decades in the game and she is still making GREAT music. Not only does this show her growth in music but her growth as a woman. We all know the public trials and tribulations Ms. Mary has endured, and how some will never let her forget them. But through all she has done and been through one thing people can not take away from her is her amazing voice and variety of tracks on this album. Mary says that "the album represents who and what I am right now. I'm a stronger human being after all the growing pains. It's about life, love, change, strength." If you are a fan of Mary J Blige I guarantee you will have this entire album on repeat!!!!

BISH I SAW IT FIRST!!!!

'Tis the season for people to lose their everlasting mind..the holidays people promote spreading happiness, joy, and celebrating with your love ones..but they also promote gifts lots and lots of gifts and that brings on sales and heffas scrambling everywhere to get the last wii for little Timmy and the last sweater for their mother..what is it about people i.e. WOMEN that get crazy when it comes to a SALE, I almost chopped this woman in her damn throat for bumping into me, for those that know me I don't play that mess, I'll drop my shit and get EAST PURNT on yo ass with a quickness, I hate the holidays, I know y'all saying WHY QUOYIA WHY?? Because y'all simple asses don't have any manners or no kind of shopping etiquette just be acting straight IGNANT..ugh I can't wait for it to end..I mean really why are you all waiting to the end of the damn year to celebrate and appreciate your loved ones, this should be a YEAR round thing, I tell ya, people are foolish and yes that includes YOU, especially if I have you feeling some kind of way after reading this because that means I'm hitting a nerve bish...I know one thing thing though, over the next year, y'all better learn some manners, we all know I'm no stranger to the back seat of a police car, don't get your ass beat over a sweater...lol...SMOOCHES

Letting GO......

Why is letting go so hard for us whether it be platonic relationships, romantic or even family...We old so dear to those things that are not good for us..is this human nature..is this simply picking this habit it up from others..if so why do we continue this cycle..and how do we break it..I recently had to "let go" of some people in my life and some people even have "let me go" out of theirs....But now looking back on these relationships I notice so many signs and so many acts that I fail to pay attention to or made excuses for..Like the saying says "when someone shows you who they are..believe them"...but it's always easier said than done...I guess we try to make people out to be what we want them to be and not who they really are...There is an exception to every rule and I'm pretty sure there are relationships that start off rocky and people change but for the most part we lack this fine art of "letting go"...we hold so tight and dear to theses things that we often miss great opportunities worrying about things that aren't worth shit....I suggest to you that learn how to "let go" and more importantly "MOVE FORWARD" but hey moving forward is a whole 'nother blog ;-)

♥Love is in the air, & I'm choking on that muthafucker♥

So my anniversary is tomorrow, me and the hubby will be going to the Hawks game...HOME TEAM BABY WHOOT WHOOO....lol if you from the "A" you know what I'm talking about..but we plan on having a nice evening...3 yrs strong...still in love.....we are high school sweethearts...yes very rare these days....2 yrs together...1 yr of marriage..and 1 beautiful angel later we are still hanging in there..give it up for the GREAT AND GOD FEARING MEN OUT THERE..this is for you baby...much love..for ever and always plus 18 ;-)