Saturday, October 3, 2009

Power of the Bitch

What does the word bitch mean???? Well according to Merriam Webster's online dictionary it can be used as a noun or a verb. The noun version means:
1 : the female of the dog or some other carnivorous mammals
2 a : a lewd or immoral woman b : a malicious, spiteful, or overbearing woman —sometimes used as a generalized term of abuse
3 : something that is extremely difficult, objectionable, or unpleasant

and the verb meaning, simply means to COMPLAIN.

Now I have many friends and even myself have been guilty of calling each other bitches. I've seen fights break out over the mere mention of this name in a derogatory way. Yes it is a form of disrespect but whatever happened to the saying "it's not what your called but what you answer too". I wonder when we especially as WOMEN will step up and stop giving the word BITCH so much POWER. I mean if you don't give it power how can it have so much control over your actions. And people's response is always the same " But he or she disrespected me"...okay AND SO WHAT. Why risk getting locked up or looking like a fool for someone who obviously doesn't give a damn about you in the first place. Just think about it. Someone calls you a BITCH and you shrug it off, what have they proven other than there lack of vocabulary. But once you start feeding into the word BITCH you are giving it and the person who said it POWER!!!!!

DO me a favor and don't underestimate the POWER OF THE BITCH!!!!

Kandi Burruss ex-fiance' murdered

Kandi Burruss from the popular show "The Real Housewives of Atlanta" and from the singing group "Xscape" fiance' Ashley "A.J." Jewell was murdered last night in a nightclub fight, he reportedly suffered severe head injuries which resulted in his passing. I just wanted to send my condolences to his children, his family, and Kandi. I wish them all the best and hope they can have peace in their time of bereavement.