Ratchet Foul Women

Okay I have a problem with women who will take care of themselves before they do for their children...I have a question??? I mean is it the children fault that they were brought into this world by a no good parent..."NO" for instance imagine walking into your local grocery store and you see a woman: hair done, nails done, outfit on point..and then you see her three kids trailing behind her their hair not combed and dirty clothes..now I have a daughter and I REFUSE to let her out the house looking any kind of way..you will catch me in sweat pants and a t-shirt before I let my child go without..I understand a woman has needs to but when you become a parent doesn't one's needs change??? Aren't your needs and priorities to take care of one's child(ren) FIRST..ugh hence my title..RATCHET FOUL WOMEN MAKE ME SICK!!!!